In the Book of Judges, Samson’s dad, Manoah, asked the Angel of the Lord the most important and humbling question any parent can, and really should, ask God: How do we raise this child? (Judges 13:12)

Ruthless Mothering is for moms and women (because we’re all born from moms) who know that they’re flawed and aren’t afraid to talk about it. We’re here to have discussions about what’s going on in the world, and how to equip our children through the Word of God and His Holy Spirit.

I’ve made the decision to just do it and post my first episode of Ruthless Mothering. Is it perfect? For me, yes. It’s not my normal idea of perfect: sound, ambience, guests, but I’m learning to let God of what I think is perfect. Perfection is overrated because it’s never satisfied. It’s a horrible taskmaster.

This is why the Bible tells us to be perfect even as our Father in Heaven is perfect, and that perfection comes through the leading of His Holy Spirit. (Matthew 5:46) This type of “perfect” has nothing to do with the work we do but with our character. Are we being like our Father in Heaven? Read Matthew 5 to find out what that perfect way looks like to God. 

When God tells us to do something, even as moms, we have to let go of the excuses, and just do it! By the way, a freight train runs through my episode – horn blaring and all, and I kept going. I was determined to stay focused so that I can get the episode completed. It’s my first – hopefully of many. It’s a great start, I think!

We come to the Earth needing God, and God doesn’t expect us to ignore our flaws. Paul tells us that His strength is made perfect in weakness. (2 Corinthians 12:9) 

So, as moms, when we feel weak – insecure, unqualified, the worst, we can take those feelings to God. We make ourselves think we can do everything, but God will quickly show that we aren’t meant to do it all. We’re not created to be supermoms or superwomen, we need a supernatural God who has all the answers and loves to lead us throughout our days and lives, while in relationship with Him. We are His daughters, and He loves us.

The world will have us thinking that we can do it all. It’s not good for us to do it all. It’s good for us to have community. Ruthless Mothering is a community for women to talk about motherhood and daughterhood. We can all use the help. We’re here for you!

If you don’t know Jesus, He’s available to you. Again, we’re not meant to do it all. God didn’t design us for that, even if you believe you’re doing okay without Him. This is the reason His Son died on the cross for us: to save our souls. If you’re ready to give your life to Christ, you can do it today! Pray to Him. Talk to Him. Let Him know you need and want Him in your life. Grab a Bible and start reading. I hope you choose Him . He has the best plans for you and your family ❤️!

~ Yvette